More one-to-one volunteer mentors urgently required

The Island • January 23, 2023

With nearly 170 York children and young people currently on the waiting list for a volunteer mentor, local children’s charity, The Island urgently needs to recruit more volunteer mentors who will be able to support a vulnerable young person over a 12 month period.

The one-to-one mentoring programme has high success levels in transforming children’s confidence, self-esteem and resilience levels which involves weekly one to one sessions where through play, the volunteer mentor can support the young person to make positive change within their lives.

Under normal circumstances, the young mentees participate in group-based mentoring activities until a one-to-one mentor can be allocated, which begins the process of enhancing the child’s overall health and wellbeing. Due to the ongoing pandemic, the group-based mentoring activities are on-hold with no official date of when they can resume.

As a result, the charity now urgently needs to recruit more volunteer mentors than ever before to reduce the waiting list significantly.

Emma Thompson, Manager of Mentoring Services says “currently 45% of our referrals are from the Acomb area who are struggling with their mental, emotional and/or social wellbeing. Mentoring provides vulnerable children with the opportunity with some time and space away from the chaos so that with the assistance of their mentor they can work through their challenges and build a better life for themselves.

Since becoming a registered charity in 2008, The Island has enhanced the quality of life of over 3,000 vulnerable York children. Many ex-mentees have gone onto excelling in the school environment, pursuing higher education, successfully obtaining and completing apprenticeships as well as setting up their own businesses. One ex-mentee who still works closely with The Island today, says “without The Island I would definitely be ‘off the rails’ involved in crime, anti-social behaviour… possibly dead. Thanks to The Island my life has been transformed” .

Mentoring at The Island is a 12-month flexible commitment and no experience is required as full training will be provided.

Emma ends “Having been a volunteer mentor myself, I was inspired to go into youth work because I was keen to support the next generation. Personally, mentoring has helped me in terms of professional development and increased my confidence, but ultimately, I get a lot of satisfaction of seeing how far my mentees have changed during the time we spend together. COVID has had an impact on the work we do to support young people and our services are going to be in high demand when we reopen our services for new referrals, however, currently we cannot do this until we recruit more volunteers to support those currently on our waiting list.”

To find out more about mentoring and how you can make a difference in a child’s life, visit: https://www.theislandyork.org/work-with-us

By Emma Bewlay September 28, 2023
What interested you about becoming an Island Volunteer Mentor? I was interested in volunteering and personal development to enhance my career prospects. I was at a stage where I was confused as to where I wanted to go next but I knew I was good with people, and I knew that my personality would suit working one to one with a young person. I knew that I could pass on good advice and life experience. How long did you mentor for The Island? I mentored for around 15 months. Every week for around 2 hours on a Thursday night. Sometimes we would miss a session due to various factors, but these sessions were caught up on. What did you enjoy most about the Mentoring? I enjoyed being able to experience many different activities with my young person and being able to see their confidence grow. I enjoyed catching up and hearing stories from the week and focusing my attention on that session. Different social settings allowed me to guide my young person and relay stories from my experience which I knew would be helpful. This was enjoyable as I knew I was passing on vital helpful advice for adulthood. Why do you think Mentoring is important for young people? I think in today's world with social media and the stresses on life can be overwhelming for everyone. For a young person to be guided by a mentor, they can step away from that world for a short while and express themselves or let off steam in an environment where they can be nurtured and not judged. With the guidance of a mentor, the young person can take the advice into everyday life which will hopefully help them in difficult and stressful situations. The young person can build up a relationship with the mentor and know that they have trust in them to be able to openly talk about their feelings away from a family, friend it school setting. Please let us know how you have found the support from the island and which aspects you have found the most valuable? I found the support very good and easy to access. I knew that if I needed any support or advice, I could email or call my supervisor. I found the group sessions with other mentors helpful as we could come together and talk about our experience and use any advice in future sessions. Hearing stories from other mentoring experiences was highly valued. Has the Island supported you with any future plans personally or professionally? If so, could you share this with us? The island has kept in touch with me regarding several career opportunities throughout the mentoring process that I have considered. I know that I could sit with the island and discuss any plans if I needed to. Most of all, they have helped my confidence and gave me a platform to express myself and follow my goals which has put me in good stead for next move in my career as a health trainer. The skills and experience I have gained from my mentoring will be transferred over to this next role. At the Island, we are constantly looking for people who have the ability to listen, and who feel that they can develop a positive rapport with children and young people in an honest, challenging and non-judgemental way. All prospective volunteer mentors receive training, support and supervision. This covers such areas as communication, child protection, equal opportunities and often, in the process mentors learn more about themselves, too. To find out more about our volunteer opportunities please click here www.theislandyork.org
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